
Buenos Aires is an interesting city. It has the feel of an old European capitol. It definitely is a quieter city - even though it's quite a large city, it doesn't have that same hustle and bustle feel for some reason. I have to admit that I arrived with some preconceived notions of the place. People repeatedly told me how there were absolutely no black people in the city (which is almost true...). My friend who studied abroad here for a semester recounted for me how one time on the bus a group of guys were making monkey noises at her (she's a black woman). And I had some recent conversations about the vastly unknown genocide of Afro-Argentines that took place in the 19th century I believe (literally they were rounded up into stadiums and left to die, and the leaders of that era openly spoke about perfecting the Argentine nation and purging the land of its black inhabitants). Needless to say, I arrived not expecting to be in the most welcoming place in the world - a feeling augmented by the portenos (residents of BsAs) to be "assholes." It actually says that in my guide book...
I stayed in Recoleta, an upscale neighborhood, with my friend Ryon in his apartment. Ryon is an amazing host so I immediately felt at home and could begin exploring immediately. In Recoleta I visited the famous cemetery in BsAs where most dignitaries, leaders, and military types or buried in these elaborately sculpted tombs. The cemetery was pretty huge, and the only name I recognized was Eva Peron (Evita!). But boy was there some beautiful and interesting art. Some of the tombs were a bit over the top, with gold and silver everywhere and giant statues of angels, or of the deceased person, flanking the tomb. I'm not sure if I would eer want to be buried with such opulence, but some of those tombs were very cool looking, I must admit. After exploring the cemetery, I took a walk around the neighborhood, stopping in Freddo's for some of the famous ice cream in BsAs. I'm an ice cream fiend so it wouldn't be so off the mark to say the major reason I visited was for some ice cream. The dulce de leche con brownie almost brought me to tears because of how good it was. Just picture that - me sitting in an ice cream parlor, eating with a single tear of joy coming down my face. A little dramatic I know, and it didn't happen, but it sort of did in my mind. I also spent some time in Palermo during my trip, seeing the plazas and the parks and all the small boutiques. It's definitely a good place to get a meal with friends or chill at a bar with some Quilmes...
Speaking of food, the steak in BsAs is out of this world. I was in love. The meat is so fresh, cooked so well. I went out with Ryon and his family for a steak dinner one night, and it was just too delicious. The red wine there is also quite tasty. One thing that was definitely difficult to get used to in a week was the very different schedule of Argentines. Dinner is regularly had at 10 or 11pm; people don't dare arrive at the club pre-2am; and seeing the sun rise apparently means you had a good night. For me, that just meant I was really tired. We had a blast though with it - we went to this club called Wet Club which I highly recommend. It began feeling like a high school dance and by the end of the night it felt like mostly thirty somethings. And they played everything from hip-hop to Argentine reggaeton to electronic - a crazy mix. We had some laughs there. We also went out to a bunch of bars and restaurants. I definitely ate very very well. The Argentine peso is so weak compared to the dollar since the economic crash that happened there in 2001, that visitors can afford to spend more loosely (although I was a little upset about the $20 they charge you to leave the country...not a sweet goodbye)
So my black celebrity moment in BsAs happened in la Boca, a small neighborhood with El Caminito, a strip with arts, crafts, restaurants, and old, colorful Argentine architecture. Apparently it's a must-see for the tourists. I went with my friend Sara one day, and we took a nice stroll through the place, admiring the quaint buildings and the paintings of people dancing the tango. Out of nowhere these guy walk up to us, I don't even think he said hi. They asked me where I was from and when I said the U.S., from New Jersey, he got very excited and said, "B.I.G.! Big poppa, yea man! Oh and R. Kelly too! But he pees on little girls and that's nasty...And 50 Cent! Go, go, go shawty, its your birthday." I was waiting for the ignorance to stop, as Sara and I laughed at the awkwardness as these guys were singing and rapping and walking with us. One guy started beat-boxing, another was singing an inappropriate R. Kelly song. I was asked if I rapped or played basketball twice in like 40 seconds. I think there was a small reference to Obama in there somewhere, which made me a little less appalled. It was definitely hilarious though. It got me thinking of all the different things those guys mentioned, which they thought would resonate with me as an African-American - the music, the pop culture, the images that undoubtedly dominate public representations of black American men in the city. How interesting - again I was a celebrity for a little while...
During my time in Argentina, Ryon and I took a short trip to Uruguay, which was fun. It was this small town, without much to do but walk around, eat, and sit by the water. I've learned to appreciate places like this more though, so I actually had fun. We had the traditional Uruguayan food - chiva, which is steak covered in egg, cheese and ham - a little indulgent for me but not bad. Ryon and I had some good conversation, reminisced about our college years which are getting further and further away (almost a year ago now), and we played twenty questions (a classic game). All in all, BsAs and Uruguay and the rest of the places I visited were a blast! I had a lot of fun, met some cool, interesting people, and gained a new respect for Salvador, my new home away from home. I was excited to return, even though the city is much quieter now (in comparison, there are definitely still street parties all the time). And I only have a few weeks left, so I'm trying to do all I can with the time I have...